A Friendly Forest Hermit

Feb. 24th, 2026 11:15 pm
unspeakablehorror: (Default)
[personal profile] unspeakablehorror
I definitely only expect to get along with a limited number of people since that's just the nature of people, that we don't all get along with each other, and also I am not optimized for getting along with others anyway.

Still, I think I'm rather friendly considering I could get most if not all my socialization needs met as a forest hermit. I don't need to socialize for the most part, and I find it rather difficult, but I nevertheless still enjoy talking to people and find it very worthwhile.
unspeakablehorror: (Default)
[personal profile] unspeakablehorror
I haven't been on an airplane in a long time but I used to travel on them a fair amount when I was younger and I never understood being bored on airplanes. Tired, sure; all that time sitting in a metal tin can filled with pressurized recycled air, makes sense it would tend to make people tired, but I would just fall asleep if I got tired so...boredom problem solved.

So surely boredom can't actually be the primary complaint about plane flights? It must be something else. Perhaps pain or discomfort? Or anxiety? Maybe the small size of the seats and inadequate legroom? Maybe having the type of acrophobia that makes one afraid of flying? I actually do have acrophobia, but it seems to primarily be set off in an open air context--I'd only worry about my plane crashing if it was experiencing severe turbulence or if I had reason to believe it was already in danger of crashing. Which is maybe another reason I would never get bored on flights. I love looking out the window. Plane rides have the ultimate view.

But even if I couldn't look out the window, I could still read or take something else to occupy me. And failing any of that, I could daydream.

So am I just the weirdo for thinking plane flights are fun and other people really do find them boring, or is the dislike of plane flights (and maybe the boredom too) actually caused by discomfort or anxiety as I theorize above?
duskpeterson: The lowercased letters D and P, joined together (Default)
[personal profile] duskpeterson

The Emorian Palace

Entrance to the palace

Do not be offended if you are denied entrance to the Emorian palace. The fact that you have come far enough to be denied that entrance shows that the Emorians' trust in you is high indeed.

The strong manner in which Emor protects its ruler, the Chara, is not evidence that the Chara is weak and frightened. Rather, it is a simple fact that being Chara is the most dangerous job in the Three Lands. Fully four-fifths of the Charas have died before their time, many from assassination. Few Charas live beyond the age of thirty.

(I should explain to any mainlanders who are puzzled at this point that noble peninsulareans have been known to live as long as one hundred years. Even commoner peninsularans often live till they are fifty. If you meet a thirty-year-old, he is not an elder; by peninsularean standards, thirty years old is barely out of one's youth)

Under these circumstances, it is only natural that the Emorians should seek to protect their Chara, giving him the opportunity to live at least long enough to father an heir. By Emorian law, the Chara may not leave his palace, except in wartime. The number of visitors who are allowed past the outer wall of the palace grounds is small. The number of visitors who are allowed past the inner wall of the palace grounds is even smaller. The number of visitors who are allowed inside the palace is very small indeed. And the number of visitors who are allowed inside the East Wing of the palace, where the Chara lives, can be counted without losing your breath.

In practice, this means that the only people who see the Chara are his council, officials from the palace and army, boys who are training to be palace officials, royal messengers, the palace guards, and honored guests, such as ambassadors.

And the servants. Everyone forgets the servants. If you want to see the Chara, I suggest entering into training for high service.


[Translator's note: The perils of living as a Chara can be seen in Empty Dagger Hand.]

Weekly-ish Update, 2/16/26

Feb. 16th, 2026 09:18 pm
yaaurens: (confused ZYL)
[personal profile] yaaurens
However does the week go speeding by so quickly? Just... NYOOM.

I have now worked 8 days in a row, and will hit 11 before I get a day off. I wasn't supposed to work on Saturday, and in fact had Many Things Planned, which got kiboshed when I got asked to come into work. Le Sigh. At least I got a few things done that have really needed doing, like cleaning the bathroom and changing my bed sheets. It wasn't even really necessary that I went in on Saturday, since I was scheduled for Sunday, but... argh. 

Speaking of kiboshing things, last week I taught my therapist the word schlep. Apparently he has very limited Yiddish exposure, haha. 

Shakes went well; we stopped right before the bear pursuit scene, because we want Allesy to get to enjoy it too since she's having a rough time of things right now. Everyone should get to experience "exeunt, pursued by a bear" at least once in their lives.

Happy stabby happened, and I checked in re: the referrals that are outstanding. They remain outstanding - the doctor's office said that they're taking at least a month right now, which is super sucky. You'd think that since one is for, y'know, a cardiologist, they might rush that one? But noooo. It would be nice to get in to see the hand specialist soon too, since I've run out of physio appointments until I get someone else to OK more visits. Then again, there hasn't seemed to be a whole lot more progress there, which is another reason I want to get in to the hand specialist soon. Would like less pain, thx.

Did not actually accomplish my goals this week, as I discovered that the P&L for Maureen is hella fucked, and I just... didn't with mom's stuff, heh. I did, however, read something not tax related! Huzzah! John Scalzi's Redshirts, which was a fun little book. 

I finished yet another mini tax class thing, this one on military returns, so now I only have class to do before I level up again. Boss wants me to get to level 4 before next season, which apparently is gonna be doable considering I'm so close to 3 and will have... most of a year to finish 4. Once I hit 3, I can get small business certified. Level 4 brings advanced small business certification and Tax Pro Reviews, which is where the $$$ are, supposedly. Boss is also still making noises about training me to replace her when she retires, which... I don't know if I want to do that. 

We finished watching The Day of Becoming You, which was a fun little het romcom with bodyswappping, which I suppose makes it inherently queer in a way. The actors did a pretty darn good job of playing each other, which when one was Zhang Xincheng, I expected. Not sure what our next show is going to be. Maybe we'll just do a few movies or something until after I get back from Escapade.

Speaking of! Escapade is this weekend! I Am Excite! I still haven't got my stuff together for the art show, but I got a few things mostly finished up today, and will hopefully have some non-raining time tomorrow before work to get some pieces out of the shed to list for the show. I'm not sure what to bring this year; I feel so out of the loop re: fandom and creativity and everything. 

And tomorrow is LNY! I don't have anything to give anyone, but then again, I am not the boss so I don't have to! I'm hoping that I can make it to see Z1L's new movie after Escapade, but it would mean leaving pretty dang quickly, which is never ideal. I like seeing mah frends! But Z1L!

Goals for the Week: actually get everything prepped for the weekend (record hymns, art show, pack). survive the Big Bosses' visit tomorrow. try to get one of the two P&Ls actually finished, aiii.

Good Things: hummus. massive chocolate chocolate chunk cookies. rain at times I'm not driving.

Of Shows, Puzzles and Meta

Feb. 16th, 2026 04:13 pm
yourlibrarian: Sam Prankster (SPN-Prankster-well_played)
[personal profile] yourlibrarian
1) Apparently I never mentioned here that my partner and I went to see The Harlem Globetrotters last month. He said he'd always wanted to see them. It turned out to be different from what we expected. Read more... )

2) I also tend to work on a lot of jigsaw puzzles in December and January. It's nice to sit by the sunny window and watch TV in the background while working on them. I've now put away the jigsaw board and sold off the puzzles, but Ahsoka and Grogu were a favorite Read more... )

3) I was listening to the Mutant Enemy Writer's Room Reunion recorded on March 17, 2015. Over 10 years ago now, but at the time it was already a decade on from the ending of all the Mutant Enemy shows. It was a really interesting listen, in terms of how those shows were written vs. the writers' experiences on other shows (especially broadcast network shows). But it also amazed me how, while rewrites were apparently rare, it was also not at all unusual that scripts were unfinished even as episodes were being filmed. Read more... )

4) In recent months I've been listening to a radio show from the 50s and 60s that does a variety of non-rock/pop tunes, as opposed to stuff like mambos, sambas, novelty songs, and other stuff that doesn't tend to make oldies' playlists. Sometimes they have TV theme songs in there too. Not sure I'd heard the Route 66 theme before, but the version I was listening to sounded like The Simpsons theme in that the main repeated phrase was similar. Made me eyebrow raise a little since it's one of the most profitable show themes ever written.

5) The recent Fansplaining article The Success of Heated Rivalry Should Not Be a Surprise contains other surprises. For one, the author is bewildered by most articles on the show covering (for the 1 millionth time) the "women interested in gay sex" aspect, and then also why there are so many more connections to Asian BL fandoms rather than more close-to-home slash fandoms including RPF fandoms. Read more... )

Poll #34232 Kudos Footer-557
This poll is anonymous.
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 16

Want to leave a Kudos?

View Answers

Kudos!
16 (100.0%)



Social Media Hazards

Feb. 12th, 2026 11:50 pm
unspeakablehorror: (Default)
[personal profile] unspeakablehorror
We go on social media for connection or entertainment or to stay informed. The casual +10 in mental damage attached to random posts is the occupational hazard.
Page generated Feb. 25th, 2026 12:16 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios